I’ve had a mad and crazy year. I have made more mistakes in this year that I’ve probably made in my 10 years of working for myself.
I know why.
I said YES, as I often do, to too many things. One was to launch a new business – Coaching Culture Clubs, and the other was to take a year-long course that enables me to apply for an Honorary Ranger position with North West parks.
Around September this year, I was thoroughly mad at myself for messing up an email I sent with an incorrect attachment.
I stopped and thought about what was going inside me that resulted in too many mistakes.
I realized that I’d stopped all the best practices I’ve used for many years.
I had told myself I was too busy to take half an hour in the morning to meditate, journal and read. I choose to wake up every day in a frantic state and jump right into busyness.
Fortunately I came across a book called “The Miracle Morning” by Hal Elrod. It’s a quick and easy read and it reminded me that the way I start my day has an impact on how the rest of my day goes.
Start your day in a frantic and panicked state, you will have a frantic and unproductive day.
The “aha” moment in the book was a paragraph called “isolating incidents”. Hal explained how we have a tendency to make an inappropriate choice in the moment, writing it off because just this once won’t matter.
Let’s say you’re wanting to loose weight. You reach for a biscuit, and tell yourself one won’t do any harm. Keep doing this and you become an overweight person.
We do not realize that what we choose in the moment defines who we are becoming.
That’s the statement that had a huge impact on me. Now I understand where I was going wrong.
Every day when I woke up and said to myself, “I’ve got too much to do, let’s just jump straight into work”. I was in the process of becoming a person that is rushed and frantic and makes mistakes.
The choices I was making in the moment were determining who I was becoming.
I know I still have lots of inner work to do.
I know the kind of person I want to become.
Which means I have to consciously make choices now which allow me to become the person I want to be.
The question to ask is this : ” Who am I becoming by taking this action now?”
Thanks to Hal for the inspiration. I’ve gone back to rising early and grounding myself for the day. What a difference it makes to a day. I am on the road to becoming a better version of me…